Beau James Wilder

06/15/1984

02/18/2024

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Mental Health Foundation of West Michigan

Beau James Wilder, age 39 of Saranac, passed away Sunday, February 18, 2024. He is survived by his loving wife, Amanda; children, Chase, Sawyer, Bralynn; parents, Sam and Etta Wilder; mother-in-law, Sandy Fetterhoff; sisters; Jaime (James) Lewis; Michaela (Tom Kerr) Wilder; uncle, John (Karen) Wilder; aunts, Sue (Mike) Wohlscheid; Dede Clelland; nieces, Ryleigh, Harper, Emerie, Vayda; nephew, Hunter; and many more friends and relatives. Beau was known as a hard worker; he always thought of everyone before himself. He was a reliable friend; he was always there when others were in need. Beau was an amazing son, loving husband, and adoring father. He treasured spending time with his kids; from dirt biking to Lowell Wrestling Club, he was very involved in every aspect of their lives. Beau enjoyed hunting and was a part of Men of Impact group. Visitation with the family will be held from 4-5:30pm on Thursday, February 22, 2024, at Impact Church, 11840 Fulton St E, Lowell, MI 49331, with services starting at 6pm. Daniel Boon officiating. Interment Pinckney Cemetery. Memorial Contributions can be made to the Mental Health Foundation of West Michigan.

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23 Responses

  1. So very sorry for your loss. May God provide comfort and love during this time. Prayers.

  2. Beau wilder you will be missed , I have a lot of memories of you . I will never forget you the thoughtful person you were always a great personality the best Dad to your kids husband to Amanda. Until we meet again my friend Rip Beau ❤️🦌🦅

  3. Sending heartfelt condolences to the Wilder family. There are no words for how sorry we are for your loss. 🙏

  4. I will always remember that laugh and beautiful smile. RIP Beau, we will miss you and love you always.

  5. My dear friend Beau, I will miss you everyday. You always had a way to make everyone laugh and never missed a chance to lend a helping hand. Rest easy old friend and just know that our whole community will forever remember you and we will look over your family for you. Praying for the Wilder family.

  6. My heart is heavy thinking of your pain, I pray that God lays his hands on you and gives you the peace you need in this time.

  7. Our deepest condolences I remember playing together as kids when we would visit family.
    Jumping on the trampoline and running Beau down with the power wheels.
    From your cousin in Canada.

  8. I pray to our father that Beau and your family are in his arms of God and that you feel his love for all of you. I enjoyed working with Beau and talking about family, each time we talked about things outside of work, he talked about Chase, Sawyer, Bralynn. He loved the time he spend with each of you.

  9. My memories involving him are indefinitely carried with great depths of laughter and good times. He always had a strong sense of humor and work ethic. The kind of behaviors that I still carry an admirable sense of self worth to push myself towards being.

  10. Beau was a kind soul that we were all blessed to have known. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Wilder family.

  11. Beau you will be missed greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with the Wilder family.

  12. Beau was a great young man. I only had the pleasure of knowing him for a couple years at work but I sat next to him every day and we worked closely together. This news hurt my soul bad. I am so sorry for your loss and please reach out if you need anything at all.
    Rest In Peace Beau you will be missed.

  13. Beau was a great guy and a pleasure to be around whether it be hunting or work. You will be dearly missed my friend. Prayers for you and the entire family during this difficult time.

  14. There are. No words that have not been said that will help with the sadness you feel with the loss of your son husband father. If you need anything let me know

  15. We are so sorry to read about Michaela’s brother. We met some of the Wilder family at T.J.’s (Tom) 30th birthday party and what a nice family they are. May the many happy memories you shared with your loved one help to comfort you during this sad time.

  16. To your family and friends, I am so very sorry for this loss. ESPECIALLY to your wife kids and immediate family id like to reach out and say. I know some of you and some I dont but you unfortunately are in my same club….those of us left behind …. My beloved brother we lost 9 months ago from the same thing. He was a year older than Beau, he is also originally from Lowell he also left 3 kids a wife mom dad and sister. He was such a brilliant beautiful kind and funny man. They have so much in common. To the people he loved most and who loved him back… I wish you peace throughout this almost impossible grief. I hope that when you feel the hurt rising up that you let it out and dont try to hold it in even if its the 100th time that day. Let those tears flow. Laugh when you have a good memory come up with each other and cry at the same time. They go hand in hand even almost a year later. Tell his kids its ok to ask the hard questions and answer them as honestly as you can. Remember that no matter what he can still hear you. Go to his favorite place and say all that you need or want to. Dont forget to say his name, talk about all the GOOD things. Ignore anyone that is not helpful but hold on to those who are and remember that you can get through this…. One hour One moment at a time. It will not get easier with time. Not for us select few. Now you just have to learn to live with this hurt but you will do it because you have to. My absolute heart break is aching for u too. Im so sorry.

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